Sunday, 14 August 2011

Case Of The Ex

Bimbo and Demola had broken off their two year relationship almost immediately after they graduated. It had been hell for both of them especially Bimbo, who nursed her broken heart for months. She eventually got over the ache and things moved on.  A year after, she met Nick. A young, handsome, hot guy who had been in the same school with her and who was also her ex, demola's very close friend. Nick and Bimbo became really close and somewhere along the line, they felt more than friendship for each other. Bimbo was sure she hadn't felt this way since Demola and Nick just wanted to be with this woman but Demola would hear none of it. His ex and his friend? Hell no!
 
 Amaka and Moyo had been exes for 3years. And Amaka had moved on and was even engaged to be married. Her friend Onye who they'd been friends for years and who had settled a lot of disputes between her and Moyo was in love with Moyo. Amaka raised hell when she found out and promised to murder them both if they ever got together. Onye is confused, she wonders what her friend would do if she found out how many times she'd shared Moyo's bed. 
    We all wonder if its cool to date our friends' exes or not (at least i know I do) but is this morally right? Would I like it if my friend is gettin' some from my ex? And err really...were you coveting your friend's 'padner' while they were still together? If your friend is angry 'cause you are getting it from his or her ex does it mean he/she still has feelings for the ex or pure hate and expects you as a loyal friend to share in the hatred? This has been one of the most controversial situations for years. Can I date my ex's friend? Is it right? Tell me what do you think?


3 comments:

  1. Hmmm, a case of the ex.. an interesting read. Personally, I think an ex and a best friend shouldn't gravitate towards one another simply because at some point in time, both ex would find themselves in a situation that pushes them to do the forbidden.

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  2. Nice blog. I thinks its wrong to date your friend's ex :)

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  3. I think if its as serious as getting married then why not, otherwise i think it shouldnt be done especially if the break up circumstance wasnt a good/mutual one. A friend, especially a good one, would be an asset lost if
    the relationship doesnt work out. In a situation where there is a mutual breakup, one would most likely consent to an ex and their friend dating. Just my thought though...:)

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